Thursday, November 11, 2010

Flowing with Frustration

After today's discussion of Chapter 10, I felt we had only a brief discussion on our views of Gogol. I felt particularly frustrated in this reading section because of Gogol's unawareness to his wife's sneaky actions. Continually throughout the novel, I have viewed Gogol as a foolish and childish individual. Gogol continues to latch himself on to people. I feel that this dependence results from his continuous battle to escape his own unenjoyable lifestyle. As a result, Gogol finds himself too trusting of others. After Moushumi continually cheats on Gogol, he "suspects nothing. As usual they have dinner, talk of their days" (264). This quote specifically elevated my frustration with Gogol. I cannot fathom how Gogol cannot recognize the conflict in his marriage. His need to attach to others becomes problematic as Gogol's trusting nature remains unaware of his wife's unloyalty. I understand how Moushumi's sneaky nature and Gogol's busy schedule could hinder the clues about her affair. However, in previous chapters, Gogol seemed to adore spending time with his wife. I assume Gogol would continue this admiration throughout this chapter as well. Therefore, I find myself becoming frustrated with Gogol's cluelessness. I believe a relationship should base itself off of trust and effort. This couple seems to lack both of these aspects. I hope Gogol will eventually become an independent individual and recognize the faults in his marriage.

1 comment:

  1. Kelsey~
    I had a very similar reaction of becoming frustrated with Gogol's obliviousness to the huge conflicts in his marriage that became evident throughout the last few chapters. I completely agree with you statement that Gogol seems to latch on to other people and overlook their faults to support his allusion of happiness, but I think that the issue in his and Moushumi's marriage is just the opposite of a lack of trust like you stated. I believe that Gogol trusts her too much and many of their problems stem from this issue and his childish, naive nature. I also am very hopeful that their marital issue will soon become evident and dealt with.
    P.S. I like you theme:)

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